tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-987516223417309324.post8590196482498095624..comments2023-11-02T01:30:05.099-07:00Comments on Struggling with my life: i think I may stop postingSearching for Peacehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17319499282526242611noreply@blogger.comBlogger28125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-987516223417309324.post-68134706823976869862008-03-31T17:09:00.000-07:002008-03-31T17:09:00.000-07:00YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ARE IN MY PRAYERS.STAY STRONG ...YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ARE IN MY PRAYERS.STAY STRONG FOR THE KIDS SAKE.<br>GOD BE WITH YOU AND GUIDE YOU<br>CONNIEAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-987516223417309324.post-65443515036183999772008-03-31T17:11:00.001-07:002008-03-31T17:11:00.001-07:00Hi Christine,Very saddened by your circumstances. ...Hi Christine,<br><br>Very saddened by your circumstances. But please do not lose faith. The wheel will turn in your favor. That is the way it goes. Good luck and please stop by to let us know how you are doing. <br><br>VishAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-987516223417309324.post-31237070582887465812008-03-31T17:11:00.000-07:002008-03-31T17:11:00.000-07:00I think you should still post ... I know it helped...I think you should still post ... I know it helped me a lot throught the yrs! I have been through a lot, my ex cheating on me , my x not paying support ... I know it is tough, and there will be rough days but you will make it through! and IMO journaling helps a lot!<br><br>SharonAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-987516223417309324.post-31533638899552461332008-03-31T17:16:00.000-07:002008-03-31T17:16:00.000-07:00May I ask where you live at???I'm very sorry t...May I ask where you live at???<br>I'm very sorry to hear all of this , from what I have been reading. I wish I had been your friend, I wish I had not found you now that your leaving. It's like grasping at straws becasue I want to help you. Where do you live at?<br>Hugs<br>AngAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-987516223417309324.post-15198569681031617882008-03-31T17:20:00.000-07:002008-03-31T17:20:00.000-07:00Please hang in there and rebuild. Never give up. ...Please hang in there and rebuild. Never give up. Your children need you. You will make it.<br><br>Krissy<br>http://journals.aol.com/fisherkristina/SometimesIThinkAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-987516223417309324.post-68492714661746101502008-03-31T17:29:00.000-07:002008-03-31T17:29:00.000-07:00Christine -- Ang is right -- I'd forgotten, bu...Christine -- Ang is right -- I'd forgotten, but Angie and some others also work with a journal called The Giving Tree. "J-Land" can be quite supportive -- and there are weirdos online anywhere but Angie and Sharon and Krissy and probably others who have commented on your journal (I'm just only remembering them right now) -- they'd all try to help you. Perhaps you can e-mail someone what state / district / territory etc. you are in. Plus you really may need a family law attorney, yes, even a free consultation or something. This must be just horrible for you, but know you are not alone. -- RobinAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-987516223417309324.post-73164312770068621042008-03-31T17:33:00.000-07:002008-03-31T17:33:00.000-07:00Keep the faith and don't give up. I too separ...Keep the faith and don't give up. I too separated from my husband and it was the best thing to do. Instead of getting down I got a college degree and now am in a good position at the college that I went back to school at. <br>I had to work hard and work for peanuts for months but it was worth it. <br>Most colleges have programs for single mothers. Get back in the game. It isn't over yet.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-987516223417309324.post-87763850343539409582008-03-31T17:34:00.000-07:002008-03-31T17:34:00.000-07:00I hope you get this!!! I'm so sorry that you ...I hope you get this!!! I'm so sorry that you are dealing with all the struggle!! I hope that you will know that Jland is a place to come where everyone loves you and will keep you in their prayers!! Most of all, I do hope you know that your son loves and needs you just as much as he does his daddy... don't let them tell you any different. You have to get on your feet for your kids... ALL of them... Let that be your drive, your encouragement to 'tredge on'. Please come back when you can and keep us posted. I'll be praying for you!!!<br><br>Joann<br>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-987516223417309324.post-30581668506039299202008-03-31T17:37:00.000-07:002008-03-31T17:37:00.000-07:00Never give up hope.And God? Well you just don'...Never give up hope.<br>And God? Well you just don't know what he may have in store for you. You might be surprised. I know that I have felt that He turned His back on me several times in my life, only to have something unexpected to happen that was for the good. It's hard to see it, I know and totally understand.<br>If you can keep up journaling you should. It helps to get things out of your system.<br><br>KathyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-987516223417309324.post-53663167166958992312008-03-31T17:58:00.000-07:002008-03-31T17:58:00.000-07:00Hi Christine,Gem here, sent over by Magic Smoke ed...Hi Christine,<br>Gem here, sent over by Magic Smoke editor, letting us know (jland forum) you could use some support and friendly shoulder.<br>I've read some of your previous entries down to get a sense of what's going on. <br>You sure are going through a very rough time that made me appreciates of what I have, which is intact family and a roof over our head. <br><br>I know what it feels like not to have the financial means to support the whole family. I know the pain you're feeling of being outcast from your in-laws and parents. I cannot imagine the pain you're feeling right now-of knowing you'll be seperated from one of your kids. <br><br>Money does separates people, specially couples who can't make ends meet. But the one thing I learned is to not let the money dictate your life or let it take over your mind. A lot of the things going on in your marriage and family life is surely making you more susceptible to illness and definitely to more depressions. <br><br>I just want you to know that I do understand how you are feeling lately/now, because I have been there. What you need the most right now is understanding and help from people closest to you, your friends to be there to cry on, (and for them to not judge you for the circumstances going on in your life right now.) <br><br>(continued)<br>Gem :-)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-987516223417309324.post-10066844599245471632008-03-31T17:59:00.000-07:002008-03-31T17:59:00.000-07:00(continued) Taking a break from writing gives you ...(continued) <br><br>Taking a break from writing gives you some time to tend to other things that maybe more priority to you, and that is understandable. But if you ever, ever need to let it all out, and there's no one nearby to talk to, then this is what your journal is for. It's for you to write your thoughts and I assure you there are more caring readers out there to help you through even if it is just through their comments and/or email. <br><br>I've lived in a shelter before, with my mom and sis, when my stepdad walk out on us because of financial problems. It's not easy, but somehow you'll get through this. I believe what you need the most now is to be STRONGER than ever and try to make a conscious choice to better yourself, for your sake and your children's. <br><br>Sending hugs and prayers,<br>GemAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-987516223417309324.post-46729347892165075712008-03-31T18:07:00.000-07:002008-03-31T18:07:00.000-07:00I am keeping you and your family in my prayers.Hug...I am keeping you and your family in my prayers.<br><br>Hugs,<br><br>MichelleAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-987516223417309324.post-78777846656951484492008-03-31T18:12:00.000-07:002008-03-31T18:12:00.000-07:00I will be praying that you will find something or ...I will be praying that you will find something or someone to help you over this hurdle. Life is not easy and I read just a little of your journal so I know you've got a tough time yet ahead of you. Please know that our dear Lord does care and is always with you. 'On Ya' - maAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-987516223417309324.post-74003192559843369222008-03-31T18:31:00.000-07:002008-03-31T18:31:00.000-07:00Christine... just leave your journal open incase y...Christine... just leave your journal open incase you need to talk to someone. In my prayers, Love, JanieAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-987516223417309324.post-30281462128988944522008-03-31T18:46:00.000-07:002008-03-31T18:46:00.000-07:00Christine, I will keep you in my prayers. Have fa...Christine, I will keep you in my prayers. Have faith, things will work out for you~<br>{{{HUGS}}}<br>MarieAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-987516223417309324.post-36044648723765846912008-03-31T18:52:00.000-07:002008-03-31T18:52:00.000-07:00Christine, do try to keep in touch when you can, l...Christine, do try to keep in touch when you can, like Janie said, keep the journal open so you can post updates whenever you can even if it is months in between because we will be thinking about you <br><br>bettyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-987516223417309324.post-30493141684803206712008-03-31T22:03:00.000-07:002008-03-31T22:03:00.000-07:00praying for you:) Remember this is just a bend in ...praying for you:) Remember this is just a bend in the road of life. <br><br>DebAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-987516223417309324.post-23003789392595016132008-03-31T22:23:00.000-07:002008-03-31T22:23:00.000-07:00good luck in all that you do god bless mor...good luck in all that you do god bless mort xAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-987516223417309324.post-86880045069321901892008-04-01T07:23:00.000-07:002008-04-01T07:23:00.000-07:00((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((HUGSTOYO...((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((HUGSTOYOU)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))You in my thoughts and prayers.<br><br>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-987516223417309324.post-28513735495507320162008-04-01T07:24:00.000-07:002008-04-01T07:24:00.000-07:00Hi,Came via the Call for Support journal. I am ver...Hi,<br>Came via the Call for Support journal. I am very sad to hear of your circumstances. It is already bad enough that you will be divorcing your husband, but it is cruel to be denied access to your children. I am of course not there on the ground, and am yet to read back through your journal. I hope it all turns out better than it seems to be at present. If you feel like posting again at some point, please do. Otherwise, rest assured that you are in our thoughts at this time. <br><br>Guido<br>http://journals.aol.co.uk/pharmolo/NorthernTrip/<br>http://journals.aol.co.uk/pharmolo/call-for-support/Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-987516223417309324.post-83716116642876986692008-04-01T07:58:00.000-07:002008-04-01T07:58:00.000-07:00Hello Christine. What a heartbreaking entry. I hop...Hello Christine. What a heartbreaking entry. I hope you will keep posting and let us know how you are. You really need to get some proper support to help you through this terrible time. I honestly believe that once you hit complete rock bottom, you can never get as low as that again and, I just hope that you will find your life moving In an upwards capacity very soon. Love Pam xx<br>http://journals.aol.co.uk/pamal3/almost-40/Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-987516223417309324.post-87182068155737849672008-04-01T10:45:00.000-07:002008-04-01T10:45:00.000-07:00Please don't be so sad.. i care about you, ...Please don't be so sad.. i care about you, even tho i don't know you.<br>i have struggles too. me too...i love animals more than i could express.<br> I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL!<br> It is so good to write....you can always write to me. i understand every kind of hurt. you take care of yourself...<br> Life is a struggle.........believe in yourself and your own strength.<br> i didn't read all your stuff, just the Headline.<br> Be strong..and ....it's Spring. elizabethAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-987516223417309324.post-58508619096497758742008-04-01T10:48:00.000-07:002008-04-01T10:48:00.000-07:00Please don't be so sad.. i care about you, ...Please don't be so sad.. i care about you, even tho i don't know you.<br>i have struggles too. me too...i love animals more than i could express.<br> I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL!<br> It is so good to write....you can always write to me. i understand every kind of hurt. you take care of yourself...<br> Life is a struggle.........believe in yourself and your own strength.<br> i didn't read all your stuff, just the Headline.<br> Be strong..and ....it's Spring. elizabethAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-987516223417309324.post-65052514631395242402008-04-01T12:59:00.000-07:002008-04-01T12:59:00.000-07:00Christine, how in the world can you give up with a...Christine, how in the world can you give up with all these people around you to support you. I know that you may be in a bind right now but we all want you to have a good life. It may take time but you can do it. LucilleAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-987516223417309324.post-82357842919241676012008-04-01T17:56:00.000-07:002008-04-01T17:56:00.000-07:00I am so sorry....I can see why you have lost faith...I am so sorry....I can see why you have lost faith...my heart goes out to you and I hope someday...soon you will find comfort and happiness again. you are in my thoughts and still in my prayers, I do pray you find peace again....<br>KellyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com